Marrying the White or foreigner

As Salam and Hi
I would like to remind readers that what I wrote is all based on my experiences and observations and of course not everyone are the same. In some topics, majority are involved while other intances only minority are involved.

Let get back to the topic of today.
Marrying a person of different background has the good bad especially when children and religion are involved (I am talking about Malaysia). This is based on my experiences watching these people over times.

I am not going to talk about religion here .  All I want to say is the type of men or women that the Malaysians (and Asian) or the white are looking or marrying and living abroad and the preception and expectation of family

WHITE MEN

1. The White MEN that are marrrying Malaysian not all are RICH. White men like Malaysians (and Asians) women because they are loyal and sincere.

1a. Unfortunately family back home thought white MEN are always rich and expect the daughter to provide for the family back home or spent money when and if they return home for holiday. In actual fact their lives are not that easy abroad. They struggle which the family does not know.

1b. You cannot aspect your daughter to send money home like we do in Malaysia (even Malaysian children also not all doing it )

1c. When family comes to visit, not all welcome in thier homes.  They might put them  in a motel. That is the reality. Do not aspect to be like in Malaysia when family can just come in and sleep in the house.

WHITE WOMEN/ FOREIGNER

2. The White or foreign WOMEN that are marrying Malaysia men usually look for those who are RICH and Educated and with STATUS. They will not marrying a painter or mechanic which the Malay women did.

2b. Sadly Malay men (who is supposed tot be leader in the family) who married white women seem to follow the White women (including lifestyle).  This is include those living abroad or in Malaysia.  The example is many .

So Ladies and gentlemen think about it

Dr Aishah