One in a Miillion Part 1

As Salam

There is no word to describe this individual.  I have known her for over ten years. She almost like a family to me.  She is the kindest, sweetest, generous, kindhearted, sincere, genuine all in one. She is not very literate, standard three only (I think). By the way she is married to a white guy (second marriage). Her English or should I say her English grammar is not good but she get by with anyone. Her thinking, her action, her attitude is beyond those with triple Master or PhD. She is known to all the VIPs where she lives but she treats them the same. She is known to almost all people in this part of the district where she live.  As far as she is concern everyone that comes to her house is the same, no Dato. Datin, Tan Sri (Yes she had all these people come to her humble house.

She has two children, one is mixed the other is Malay.  She lives by her principle. She is a very Solehah wife and a good mother.  She makes money through her little business in her garage. I talk about her later

Let talk about her husband. He is also being well looked after and he too look after his family well. He has the white way of living in a good way and a Malay way of living.  He helps with washing cloth, doing the dishes, makes bed (every day and change bed every weekend without fail). He supported his wife in every way. He is very focus, and do things in an instance. He of course do the man job such as lawn the grass, wash around the house, gardening and the rest. So that the Western side of him. He value family live because he brought up by parents who value live 

The Malay side of him, he accepted visitors to his house at anytime without appoinment because his house is the place where people meet. People come to thier house to eat, to tell thier grievences or to get help. He never complain.though a lot of times the wife is the one who entertain visitors because he works 9-5 while she is at home most of the times.  He helps any new people comes and provides them with whatever they have to settle in. I forgot to mention, her husband too makes coffee for us (including the daughter) after dinner. 

He is a very dicipline man.  He wakes up at up at 5 am every day, do whatever he needs to do, have breakfast makes bed, read while the wife prepare his lunch box. He leaves for office at 7 am after kissing his wife. He kisses her everyday without fail. And he had packed lunch ever since he is married this wonderful person.  For the past 25 years of his marriage, he never had lunch other than the lunch the wife prepared for him.  If he left the lunch at home, the wife will sent it to him. 

He never complain about the food (literally never) and he eats anything the wife prepare (of course the wife is an excellent cook, Malay and western foods). He only eats out when the wife is not around.  He expects his wife to be at home when he got home but do not mind if she goes out as long as he is aware where she goes. He does not drink or smoke. When the wife baby sitting, he make sure the wife pays full attention to the children's well being. By the way she looked after my children when I studied. He is not a big spender who goes out to meet friends except for works related or his hobby (flying plane).

I forgot to mention;  he calls his wife SAYANG and the wife calls him LOVE. They used the words with meaning and sincerity.

Let me introduce her daughter (the mixed) went to university without loan, all from her money. Her  daughter speaks better Malay than the children of both Malay parents. 

To be continued